Monday, April 11, 2011

Rama Rajyam!

Today people celebrate Rama's birthday as a festival, but do not practice Rama's ideals. Enshrine Rama's ideals in your heart. Without it, there is no meaning in celebrating Rama's birthday .The hero, Rama, lived his whole life by the rules of dharma; in fact, that was why Indian considers him heroic. When Rama was a young boy, he was the perfect son. Later he was an ideal husband to his faithful wife, Sita, and a responsible ruler of Aydohya. "Be as Rama," young Indians have been taught for 2,000 years; "Be as Sita.”. Originally however, he was a great Culture-Hero of the Aryan people. He is considered as an ideal of human perfection, A hero is who is fearless, invincible, intelligent and compassionate, quick to forgive and slow to anger, but never compromising on what is right. Who He believed in Ekam patni vrata, Rama's life and journey is one of perfect adherence to dharma despite harsh tests of life and time. He is pictured as the ideal man and the perfect human.


The Rama story holds forth many ideals" Ram Rajya was the rule of Shri Ram over the entire world. He showed example as a model king and Hindus expect Rama Rajya to come for the welfare of everyone. They lived in love and compassion.  All were devoted and dedicated to their respective duties and vocations in life. 

Lord Rama devoted Himself to the task of the spreading of truth and righteousness. In His reign, the people of the country, big or small, young or old, men or women, the enlightened or the unenlightened were steadfast in their adherence to truth and righteousness. As the king, so were the ministers. As the ministers, so were the administrators. As the administrators, so were the people. The three brothers Bharatha, Lakshmana, and Satrughna exercised great care and attention in the practice of dharma throughout the kingdom. Reports regularly reached the King about the people who transgressed dharma. The reign of Rama was called Rama Rajya, the reign of Righteousness and Truth. People were not afflicted by diseases. Children did not die at tender ages. Women did not suffer from widowhood. Rains came on time and people prospered. Rama Rajya was marked by peace, prosperity, and harmony and compassion.

All sections of society were not greedy.

All were devoted and dedicated to their respective duties and vocations in life. All citizens were interested in Dharma and as all their actions related to Dharma and were truthful, straightforward with all good features. Dharma with its four pillars of Truth, Purity, Compassion and Charity prevailed everywhere.  Not to speak of committing sin, no one even dreamed of it.  Poverty, ignorance, illiteracy, diseases and all kinds of suffering had been banished.  In short, heaven itself was established on his earth.


A small thought!!!!

One question that keeps coming up again and again in my mind is in Indian politics is it ever possible to bring back Rama Rajya to India?  Can India ever have Rama Rajya again? Is this a realistic dream / ideal? Was Ram Rajya a reality during Ram's period or it can be still enlivened?
  
Now what is Rama Rajya???

*In Rama Rajya, the rulers were expected to be of flawless character.  Their morals and conduct were above reproach because of the high standards of what they expected from themselves
*Raj dharma of highest moral order was astutely cultivated.  Promises, once given, are followed through with zeal, even at personal cost.
*The ruled in those days expected such perfection from their rulers.  They expected the rulers to be perfect in their personal and pubic life.   
*The rulers were meant to be better than the ruled, providing shining examples for others to follow.

’Modern Indian democracy has turned this upside down!! ‘’

The rulers are often convicted criminals, with little or no education.  They are often known by all to line their own pockets with public money and are at the apex of corrupt officialdom they carefully nurture. Good people are routinely hounded out of power by bad people.  Promises are made to be broken and that is accepted by all and sundry as “coalition dharma”. Though fully aware of the actions of politicians and bureaucrats that rule and ruin their lives, the masses do nothing to change the system.  They readily accept bad-governance as their lot in life and bear all this with stoic perseverance that would put a penitent to shame.

RAMA ON RULERSHIP:
Ayodya Kandam-100Th sargam. It was just a coincidence that in that sargam Rama was asking Bharatha- he is ruling the kingdom in a just way. This sargam is very relevant to our country and at the present time.

Rama taught Bharata in Ayodhya kanda how government should be carried on;
*Have as your ministers only persons of character and virtue, who are tranquil in mind and devoted to truth. *Don't have as ministers anyone lacking in these four qualities. 
*Moreover, they should possess self-confidence, practice righteous conduct, and be capable of giving proper advice. 
*These are essential prerequisites for wise administrators.

How a government should be carried on? The following were Shree Rama’s idea;
·         *No place for selfish persons
·          * No room in the government for persons animated by self-interest
·         *Don't allow anyone given to vices like gambling and drink to wield authority.
·         *Entertain only those who command the esteem of the people
·         *Daily conferences with three or four such ministers.
·         *Your talks should be in private and no outsider should know anything about them.
*Send out envoy to other countries ambassadors who are totally loyal to the king and not time-servers who practice duplicity.

Respect For women

Rama did not stop with that a nation's honor is based upon its women. It is only when women maintain their respect and honor that the nation will be respected.
Indian women used to live in a society that always respected women like mother and sister. Most ancient Indian cultures have already treated women as mothers. Today like never before women are being raped, gang raped, molested at work place, streets and even homes. In the country where 60% of children, male or female are being raped, molested and treated poorly, expecting the men to respect women is a far dream.

RESPECT FOR PARENTS

Shree Rama is the best example for the youngsters of India of how to respect our parents, elder and Gurus (teacher). Rama carried out the words of his father ("Pithruvaakya paripaalana"). How many today respect the words of the parent? Now, there's no respect for children or parents, or people in any kind of ... are dumping their elders into nursing homes and leaving them there to die.

After instructing Bharata regarding the principles of good government, Rama told Bharata: 

The lessons taught to Bharata by Shree Rama are ideal lessons:

·         *You must revere the parents, the preceptors and all elders. If any person misbehaves within your kingdom, do not punish him. Banish him. That will be punishment enough

·         *Here I wish to explain what is meant by punishment. There is no need to beat or abuse the erring person. Stop talking to him. What is the use of talking to a person who is going astray?

·        * I do not want to waste my words on such a person. I attach great value to my words. They may not know it, but I know their value. None of my words has any selfish motive.

What this means is that the rulers should have three qualities?
  • Righteous conduct
  • Good counsel
  • Good qualities
There should be a combination of all the three. Today good counsel is a rarity. As for good qualities, the less said the better.
There should be no place for the wicked who speaks one thing, and act in a different way.

An ideal manner of Rama

Rama is the very embodiment of these three attributes.
*This means that every human being should cultivate sacred thoughts, right actions and good qualities. 
*Rama demonstrated by his words, thoughts and actions how such a life can be lived. Rama acted upon the ancient injunction:
*Speak truth. Practice righteousness.' Eschewing harsh words, Rama pleased everyone by his sweet speech. 
*He countered harsh speech by others with composure, patience, and sweetness and smile.
*He never pried into the affairs of others, he never took notice of their faults, never indulged in ridicule, and never caused any pain to others by the way he spoke to them. 
*He Talk softly - With a pleasing voice and having never felt the pride of a successful warrior - would never tell a lie.   
 *Help anyone who is in need - never felt jealous - never selfish.    Spend his time with learned people and wise elders .

IN SHORT - A PERSON OF ALL GOOD QUALITIES AND ONLY GOOD OF EVERYTHING A character who is welcomed everywhere it is essential for everyone to follow the example set by Rama and cultivate his many noble qualities and do righteous actions. People should entertain sacred thoughts.Thus Shree Rama’s Rajya was very successful and his kingdom remained happily for many years.

If our nation needs the same happiness and prosperity we ought to follow Shree Rama’s Footsteps.

  * Take pride in our work.
  * Don't vote for those with criminal records or known for corruption.
   *Expect to give and get excellent quality of service.
   *Say Big “NO” to Bribing. Stop bribing people.
   *Expect our politicians to be good people.
   *We must first develop character.
   * True education develops character.
   *There is absolutely no use of wealth in the hands of a person without character.
  *Good virtues, good intellect, dedication, devotion, discipline,And duty consciousness—these are the qualities taught by true education.

These are the things people of our country and our politicians ought to learn. They have to start with reforming their own behavior Like Rama first.You cannot have Rama Rajya unless the people behave in an ideal manner themselves.
I wish to awaken you all to the most important and timely ones for humanity now. All the main ills of the modern world will be removed if these lessons from the ideal life of Rama are adopted in our lives individually as well as nationally.  You cannot have Rama Rajya unless the people behave in an ideal manner themselves;There is no doubt, if these principles are immediately adopted, sincerely cherished and earnestly practised real "Rama Rajya" will come about on earth not merely for one kingdom, nation or country, but for the whole world. It will be "Rama Rajya" for the entire humanity.

 SHREE RAMAJAYAM!

Tuesday, March 8, 2011

Women !




 A woman is not only Women...
A woman is a Human! 
Women is Power of universe..
Women of courage, women of strength,
Women of faith and devotion.
Women are adorable when she became Mother,
Women are Lovable as daughters;
Women are Reputable when they can reach great heights!
Women are Worship able for keeping peace at home;
Women are Excusable for love of ornaments;
Women are Memorable for timely advice,
Women are Notable for patience,
Women are Remarkable when sacrificing lots
Women are excitable when rearing children fine
Women are Salvageable when shown some kind of love!
Women are amazing creatures,
Women are an object of mystery;
Women are a great and heavenly treasure!
 (PictureCourtesy-Google image)
Women Plays Different Roles In Both Personal As Well As Professional Life. To Cross Each Stage, The Pain Which She Takes Is Unimaginable.....Only Those Who Have Experienced, Can Understand & Feel Her Pain. "I am a woman of one. A tribute to our mothers, daughters, sisters, wives. India's fabulous, astonishing women…. Women are all above. So respect them and love them. A Very Happy Women’s day!


Sunday, February 13, 2011

Strange is the Path of love...

Strange is the Path of love-MeeraBai 

From ancient times to the present generations have passed but true love, or the bonding of two people has not changed its color the only thing that has changed is the way of expressing love and love-making. Whatever may be the time; love holds its own position in everyone’s life. Though love of past has more preference over the love of ‘Today’ as it was more dramatic and emotion based. Love is an eternal feeling which lies inside every human being but with time and mentalities, the behavior varies from lover to lover. Unfortunately, a number of people down through the ages have been unable to find true love.

When we speak of true Love; Love never bargains, trades or never expects. Love never complains, never demands, and never hopes. Love never accepts anything less than Love, and therefore, never lowers itself to physical, mental or intellectual pleasures. Love cannot be measured, imagined, argued about or logically arrived at. Only full faith and complete surrender to the will of Love enables us to totally dissolve our ego and merge into this ocean of love.

We all sooner or later begin to aspire for that true Love which cannot be described but can be experienced without a doubt. It is my intention to show that it is possible for every creature to experience that Love in this very life, however short it may be. For this, we have excellent examples of gopikas -- the shepherd-girls of Vrindavan ,Meerabai and Andal in south. Who have achieved the ultimate Love in their human life. They were by no means literate in our ordinary sense of education.



One such perfect gopi was Radha who was reborn as Meerabai. I felt its good only if i write some words about Meerabai and her love for Lord Krishna. Meerabai who is more commonly known as Meera was a Perfect Incarnation of Love and a living example of the Prema Bhakti (Divine Love) and an inspired poetess. Meera’s songs infuse Faith, Courage, Devotion and the unconditional Love of for God Krishna is reflected in her poetry and songs that she had dedicated to her lover. The songs speak of both the joy and the pain of love. For, her Krishna was everything as in lover, husband, lord and master. Her poems beautifully express the innate feelings of her heart.

In her Poems She says, strange is the path when you offer your love. Your body is crushed at the first step. If you want to offer love Be prepared to cut off your head And sit on it. Let us empathize Her expression of love through two of her poems;

O my friends,
What can you tell me of Love,
Whose pathways are filled with strangeness?
When you offer the Great One your love,
At the first step you body is crushed.
Next be ready to offer your head as his seat.
Be ready to orbit his lamp like a moth
      giving in to the light,
To live in the deer as she runs toward
      the hunter's call,
In the partridge that swallows hot coals
      for love of the moon,
In the fish that, kept from the sea, happily dies.
Like a bee trapped for life in the closing
      of the sweet flower.
Mira has offered herself to her Lord.
She says, the single Lotus will swallow you whole.


My Lord, the love that binds us cannot be broken.
It is hard as the diamond that shatters
      The hammer that strikes it.
As polish goes into the gold, my heart
      Has gone into you.
As a lotus lives in its water, I am rooted in you.
Like the bird that gazes all night at the passing moon,
I have blinded myself in giving my eyes to your beauty.
She who offers herself completely asks only this:
That her Lord love Mira as fully as he is loved.

Ref— Mirabai (1498-1550),   Ecstatic Poems
http://www.poetseers.org/the_poetseers/mirabai/


Meerabai looked upon Krishna as her lover, seeking spiritual and physical union with him. Her writings were at the same time, spiritual and sensual. Her songs portray the only existence was that of Krishna - her sole object of desire. Her love for Krishna was above love for her friends and family. Meerabai is the most respected and loved poetess in the history of India. So that we can paint a perfect picture of Her, For True Love Many were inspired, by her example. She was indeed one of the foremost embodiments of Premabhakthi that ever walked on earth.  


Sunday, January 9, 2011

Margazhi Masam ..Some Thoughts..


மாறிய மார்கழி மாதம்! சில நினைவுகள்...

Today I visited Perumal kovil with my children and was lost in memories of my childhood;  felt bad that my children are missing many things.. About Margazhi Masam …What wonderful memories these are bringing back for me. The month of Margazhi is unique. The atmosphere is suffused with religious fervor and sanctity that draws people from different sections of the community. `Among the months, I am Margazhi,' said Lord Krishna in the Gita. In our village, almost everyone will wake up by 4am and take  bath in cold water. A small lamp is kept near the door step.   Maids would splash the cow dung mixed with water and we girls would put the dots and draw the kolam painstakingly. Mine used to be one of the biggest kolam in our neighbourhood.

 Day dawns with the Margazhi Thingal song and Kausalya Subraja in Perumal kovil;  have a clear mind to wake up  gods. . People singing Bhajans and enchanting the Godness early in the morning i.e. 5 am and go round the streets Wrapped in shawls or bare bodied, unmindful of the cold and nipping air!. This is a tradition.  It’s our culture. There is nothing equivalent to it elsewhere in the world. Devotees rush to the discourses on bhajans. We girls use to visit Perumal kovil to recite bhajans, Thiruppavai , Thirvambhavai, ,  during the early hours of a day in this month . Precisely an abishegam is performed to the deity  in sanctum sanctorum, followed by alankaram and a prasadam distributed after a mangala aarti. 

Going to the nearby temples, one after another collecting prasadams especially pongal spiced with ginger and pepper satisfies our palate. Misty weather, dense darkness, colorful kolams, bright deepams, aroma of ghee from the Pongal being cooked. This Kovil prasadam, half saree, temple visits... believe me you cannot get this anywhere else in the world.  Also the amount of peace you get going to a Shiva temple for margazhi thirupakshi are the pleasant memories I carry in my heart. Now I realize What makes me feel so proud is our culture, spirituality was induced through various means of art, yummy prasadams right from the childhood and playfully got good habits in right age of our childhood! It’s indeed very sad that nowadays very few parents know these traditions. Over the years, this tradition has definitely seen a setback. 


மார்கழி மாதம்! சில நினைவுகள்..
 
மார்கழி மாதம்.. சில்லிடும் குளிரில்
செம்மன் இழைத்து ,போட்ட கோலம்
சாணி மேல் பூசணிப்பூ ..
அலையா மனதொடு  இசையால்
கண்ணனைப் பாடும்
கவிதையாய் திருப்பாவை..
நினைவுகளின் நனையும்
மார்கழி பனியாய் நான்.....
கலைந்தது கனவு!
கால மாற்றத்தால்  
மாறிய மார்கழி மாதம்!
இன்று
அதிகாலை பனியில்...
குனிந்து பெருக்கி கோலமிட தாவணிகள் இல்லை.
கோலம் போடுவதற்கு வாசல்கள் இல்லை,
தெருக்கள்காணாமல் கான்க்ரீட்காடுகள் ஆனதால்;
கோலத்தின் இடையில் நாட்டியமிட்டு செல்லும் மனிதர்கள் இல்லை,
நல்ல எண்ணங்கள் யார் மனதிலும் இல்லை,
ஈரம் சொட்டும் கூந்தலுடன் கோவிலுக்கு செல்ல;
பெண்களுக்கு நேரம் இன்று இல்லை,
திருப்பாவை படிக்க தீந்தமிழ் இல்லை;.
பஜனை பாட பக்தியும் இல்லை.
பஜனைக்குப் பின் கிடைக்கும் பொங்கலும் சுண்டலும் இல்லவே இல்லை;
இனிவரும் காலத்தில்இதற்கெல்லாம் கவலைப்படுவதற்கும் ஆட்களும் இல்லை!

Friday, December 31, 2010

A new dawn!



Another chance to start our lives anew;

New Year is a chance for new beginning;

It is like a new sunrise of hope,

It is like a new beginning of thoughts

It is like a new day of energy

It is like a new bloom spread Fragrance& freshness around

It is like a bunch of whole new things..

May this New year add new beauty and freshness into your life..

Your life be fragrant with new opportunities,

 Your days be bright with new hopes and your heart be happy with love!

Wish U all Happy New Year!