Friday, September 26, 2008

There Is A Reason...

There is a Reason

Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of luck. Of course, sometimes it's easy for us to believe that everything happens for a reason. Every day, hour, week, and season… Things happen for a reason,That is the lesson that life teaches us. Everything happens for a reason when something in our lives changes and we walk a different road. We don’t question why we took a different route we just do it. . Nor did I realise it would take me in a new direction and help me fulfil a lifelong dream or making me look to the future out the depth of despair. Therefore in every life there are turning points, a new road we must travel. The reason for it will remain a mystery until we reach the answer, as everything happens for a reason.

What is next? I don’t really know, only whatever happens it will happen for a reason and I won’t know the reason just yet.Therefore in every life there are turning points, a new road we must travel. The reason for it will remain a mystery until we reach the answer, as everything happens for a reason. Learn, the first time, what they've come to teach you, all those lessons, great and small. It's true when people sayThings happen for a reason,That from every closed doorA new window opens That from something bad a good thing turns out,that from a down an up comes,that from a tear a smile comes upon…

There must be a reason for everythinga reason for sadness and joy ,a reason for depression , a reason for laughter and tears,a reason for leaving and meeting,a reason for grieving and celebrating,IN EVERY SORROW, EVERY PAIN, IN EVERY SADNESS AND HAPPINESS,EVERY TEAR IN OUR EYES,EVERY SMILE IN OUR LIPS,IN EVERYTHING WE FEEL EVERY PATH WE TAKE…IN EVERY JOURNEY WE GO, EVERY PERSON WE MET.IN LIFE’S DESTINY…OF FAILURE AND SUCCESS OF LIFE AND DEATH…

For every trust, for every care, For every hatres, for every love.

For every cry, for every joy,There is a reason for every emotion,

For every frown,for every smile,For every speech, for every silence,

For every glance, every stare,There is reason, for every expression

For everyacceptence, for every rejection,For every kick, for every hug,

For every slap, for everyclap,There is a reason for every action. there must be a reason for all these… Because it is true when people say Everything Happens for a Reason …There is a reason, behind every thing is a hidden reason that GOD only KNOWS THE REASON.Try to discover it we have to improve our vision…because, there is a reason……

Awards:

A special kindness , a smile, a laugh, an unexpected compliment, a hug…all these makes one happy. Do we tell those who add an extra lightness the joy it brought. I consider myself lucky that I got two lovely sisters through blogsphere.They consider me me and my work worthy for these awards. I have been showered with blog award from Lena & sameera.

Lots and lots of thanks to my dear blog friends/sisters.Lena passed me Brilliant Weblog award.Brilliant Weblog is a prize given to sites and blogs that are smart and brilliant both in their content and their design. The purpose of the prize is to promote as many blogs as possible in the blogsphere.All the bloggers have wonderful work and content in their blog and all deserve to get this.

As per the rules I would like to pass this award to all my fellow bloggers who consistently visited my blog and left warm words. My sincere thanks to all of them.

Sameera passed me I Love your Blog Award.This a very appealing one and Honour to receive this award from u.Thanks a lot Dear..Lot Lot thanls to my dear sisters/ friends.

Monday, September 8, 2008

The Art Of Giving

Giving is a Key to Happiness So all this "giving" and "receiving" business gets very messy unless you are in politics or business or among very close relationships.The best perspective on giving and receiving is provided by Gibran's Prophet:"See first that you yourself deserve to be a giver, and an instrument of giving. For in truth it is life that gives unto life while you, who deem yourself a giver, are but a witness Giving or generosity is a very beautiful thing — it brings happiness to both the giver and the recipient. “The Lord Jesus himself said: ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive’ ”

Giving is a beautiful art… let’s not think twice to offer help or give away something that you can offer. Even after accepting that giving is good and that one must learn to give, Rivers do not drink their own water, nor do trees eat their own fruit, nor do rain clouds eat the grains reared by them. The wealth of the noble is used solely for the benefit of others? "When the wealth in the house increases, when water fills a boat, Throw them out with both hands! This is the wise thing to do!Even after accepting that giving is good and that one must learn to give. When should one give? One does not know really whether one will be there tomorrow to give! The time to give therefore is now.


'How much to give? "Give as much as you can!! What to give? It is not only money that can be given. It could be a flower or even a smile. "You can give anything but you must give it with your heart!! Whom to give? "Give without being judgmental!!’How to give? 'Give quietly'!! While giving let not the recipient feel small or humiliated. What should one feel after giving?
Give and never regret giving! "Don't indulge in gift-giving as a means of outdoing one another but as a means of expressing and strengthening your relationship."



Give those who needed Love,
Give those who needed Shelter,
Give those who needed Prayers,
Give those who needed food and water
Give those who needed Peace and happiness
Give those who needed Clothes
Give those who needed A warm bed to sleep on Give to the poor, the victims of tsunamis, of wars and earthquakes, natural disasters.

Give time and focus to the things in your life that can make you happy
Give time and attention to making those around you happy.
Give time and attention to eliminating those elements of your life that are dragging you into the unhappiness mire

Give gifts of the heart: Love, kindness, joy, understanding, sympathy,tolerance, forgiveness.
Give gifts of the mind: Ideas, dreams, purposes, principles,
Give gifts of the spirit: Prayer, vision, beauty, aspiration, peace, faith.
Give the gift of words: Encouragement, inspiration, guidance
Give gift to your Friend…Loyalty.
Give gift to your Enemy…Forgivness
Give gift to your Boss…Service
Give gift to your Child…A good example
Give gift to your Parents…Gratitude & devotion
Give gift to your mate… love & faithfulness
To all men woman….Love.
To God… your Life.

Friday, August 29, 2008

JUST FOR TODAY….

Just for today I will start my day the right way,

Just for today I will allow myself to be happy.

Just for today I will not compare myself with others.

Just for today I will smile no matter how much I hurt on the inside,

Just for today I will forgive all the family and friends;

Just for today I will make a promise, and keep it ;

Just for today I will show kindness to an animal,

Just for today I will stand up for what you believe in;

Just for today I will smell the rain, listen to the wind feel the breeze, use all my senses;

Just For Today I will,smile at a stranger and listen to someone's heart

Just for today , I will try to get a better perspective of my life.

Just for Today, I will hug a loved one don't hold a grudge


Just for Today don't be afraid to say "I'm sorry" tell someone you're thinking of them..

Just for today, I will not show anyone that my feeling hurt,

That may be hurt, but today I will not show it. Just for today.

Just for today, be kind, cheerful, agreeable,Responsive,caring and under standing.

Just for today be your best, dress your best.

Talk softly, look For the Bright side of things...

Just for today Praise people for what they do

And don’t criticize them for what they cannot do…

Just for today, I will adjust myself to what is and not

Try to adjust everything to my own desires…

Just for today I will try to strengthen my mind.. I will learn something useful.

Just for today...I'll remember I still have a choice just for today...

JUST FOR TODAY, I WILLNOT WORRY..

JUST FOR TODAY GIVE THANKS FOR MY MANY BLESSINGS

JUST FOR TODAY…I’LL LIVE…..JUST FOR TODAY..I WILL…

(Whenever I feel dejected or in distress I read this prayer … It's in my wallet and my daily work book - I'd like to share it with all…)